Can someone share tips on how to start writing a good college essay?

Feeling stuck at the beginning is so common—you're definitely not alone. The pressure to be 'unique' is real, but authenticity is even more important. Admissions officers read thousands of essays, and what stands out is a genuine voice and a perspective that feels real, not manufactured.

When it comes to picking a topic, don't dismiss ideas just because they seem ordinary at first glance. Sometimes a seemingly simple moment can offer an honest window into who you are. For example, instead of writing about winning a debate championship, you might focus on a conversation with a teammate after a tough loss—what you learned, how you grew, or how it changed your relationship with competition.

For brainstorming, try making a list of moments in your life that made you think, "I'll remember this." Think about times you experienced change, learned something surprising, or took a risk. Ask yourself: When have I felt most proud, challenged, or curious? Free-write about a couple of these, even if you don't think they'll end up being the subject of your essay. Setting a timer for 10-15 minutes and just letting your thoughts flow onto the page can really help break through that first-draft block.

Don’t worry about having a perfect opening line right away—just start writing anywhere in the story. You can always come back and fine-tune the opening later. Sometimes telling the story as if you’re talking to a friend makes it feel more natural than trying to sound impressive from the start.

Getting feedback is very normal, so don't hesitate to ask a teacher, counselor, or someone you trust to read your draft. They can help you spot where your authentic voice shines or where things feel forced. But make sure the essay still sounds like you after any edits. If you do share it, ask specific questions, like, “Does this sound like me?” or “What parts felt the most interesting to you?”

The biggest takeaway is: be honest, start messy, and you can always revise. Your story matters, even if it doesn’t seem dramatic or unusual at first glance. Sometimes those everyday moments reveal the most about who you are.