What are the key tips for writing a standout college essay?

Feeling nervous about your college essay is completely normal—almost everyone feels pressure to make their writing stand out, so you’re definitely not alone. The best essays aren’t about picking a wild or never-before-seen topic, but about making an ordinary story feel meaningful and authentic to you. Colleges want to hear your honest, reflective voice and learn something about your perspective and growth.

When choosing a topic, try to focus on a moment or experience that was significant for you, even if it doesn’t seem world-shaking. Think about small events that taught you something or changed the way you see yourself or the world. For example, rather than writing about winning a big competition, maybe you tell the story of an afternoon teaching your sibling a skill—then use that as a lens to highlight your patience, creativity, or resilience.

With structure, a ‘slice of life’ approach often works well. Begin with a scene or anecdote that pulls your reader in, and then reflect on why this moment matters. Don’t try to list every achievement; focus on depth over breadth. Admissions officers read thousands of essays, so letting them walk in your shoes for a few minutes is what they'll remember.

Balancing tone is about being true to yourself. Humor can work, but only if it’s your natural voice—don’t force it just to stand out. A more serious, heartfelt essay can be just as memorable if it’s honest and insightful. As for how personal to get, it’s completely okay to touch on vulnerable topics, but only share what you feel comfortable with and avoid details that you wouldn’t want a stranger to know about you.

One thing I wish I did differently was letting others read my drafts sooner. Feedback from someone who knows you well can help you see whether your personality is coming through. Short, specific moments will nearly always be stronger than broad, generic summaries. Don’t be afraid to start with a messy draft; you’ll revise it multiple times. Remember, the essay’s real goal is to create a sense of connection with the reader—your voice, your thoughts, your story.

Example: If you’re stuck, write about a single object that means a lot to you, like a recipe book from your grandmother or a worn pair of running shoes, and what that item represents in your life. That’s often a good launch pad for a unique take on your own experiences.

Trust yourself and start writing—even if it feels awkward at first. The more you write, the more your true voice will come through!