What exactly do colleges want to see in my essay?
I've started brainstorming for my Common App essay, but I'm honestly confused about what the colleges really expect. Am I supposed to write about something super dramatic that happened to me, or should it be more about everyday things that just show who I am?
I feel like whenever I read examples online, they’re either about huge challenges or some random thing like a favorite snack... It makes me wonder if there's a topic that's 'better' than others or if it's literally just about how you write it.
If anyone has advice or can tell me what they focused on (and if it worked for them!), that would really help. Trying not to overthink this, but it’s kinda stressful knowing it could make a huge difference in my application.
I feel like whenever I read examples online, they’re either about huge challenges or some random thing like a favorite snack... It makes me wonder if there's a topic that's 'better' than others or if it's literally just about how you write it.
If anyone has advice or can tell me what they focused on (and if it worked for them!), that would really help. Trying not to overthink this, but it’s kinda stressful knowing it could make a huge difference in my application.
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Camille Luong
• 4 months ago
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Great question—you're definitely not alone in feeling overwhelmed by all the essay advice out there. Colleges are looking for authenticity and insight into who you are beyond grades and test scores. They're interested in how you think, what matters to you, and how you reflect on your experiences, big or small.
It's a common misconception that you need a life-changing or dramatic event to write a strong essay. Some fantastic essays focus on everyday moments or ordinary topics—it's really all about how you approach the story and what it reveals about your personality, values, or growth. Admission officers read thousands of essays, and what stands out is honesty and a unique voice. They want to hear a genuine story that's specific to you, whether that's about tackling a family tradition, your relationship with your favorite book, or a challenging personal experience.
For example, one student I know wrote about their summer job scooping ice cream. What made their essay stand out wasn't the job itself, but how they described connecting with customers, learning patience during long, hot days, and how those interactions taught them about kindness and hard work. Another person reflected on their commute to school on the city bus and what they observed about their community. Both essays worked because they were specific, personal, and reflective.
When brainstorming, ask yourself: What is an experience—big or small—that changed me, challenged me, or made me see something differently? What can I share that gives a window into who I am? Then, focus less on choosing a 'perfect' topic and more on giving honest insight into your perspective and character.
Ultimately, it's less about the topic itself and more about how you tell your story and what it reveals about you. Don't be afraid to write about the 'little' things—often, your unique take on a seemingly ordinary experience will give colleges exactly the kind of understanding they want. Good luck! Feel free to reach out if you want feedback on your drafts or want to bounce ideas around.
It's a common misconception that you need a life-changing or dramatic event to write a strong essay. Some fantastic essays focus on everyday moments or ordinary topics—it's really all about how you approach the story and what it reveals about your personality, values, or growth. Admission officers read thousands of essays, and what stands out is honesty and a unique voice. They want to hear a genuine story that's specific to you, whether that's about tackling a family tradition, your relationship with your favorite book, or a challenging personal experience.
For example, one student I know wrote about their summer job scooping ice cream. What made their essay stand out wasn't the job itself, but how they described connecting with customers, learning patience during long, hot days, and how those interactions taught them about kindness and hard work. Another person reflected on their commute to school on the city bus and what they observed about their community. Both essays worked because they were specific, personal, and reflective.
When brainstorming, ask yourself: What is an experience—big or small—that changed me, challenged me, or made me see something differently? What can I share that gives a window into who I am? Then, focus less on choosing a 'perfect' topic and more on giving honest insight into your perspective and character.
Ultimately, it's less about the topic itself and more about how you tell your story and what it reveals about you. Don't be afraid to write about the 'little' things—often, your unique take on a seemingly ordinary experience will give colleges exactly the kind of understanding they want. Good luck! Feel free to reach out if you want feedback on your drafts or want to bounce ideas around.
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