What are some tips for writing a good college essay?

Feeling overwhelmed is completely normal at the start—college essays can seem like a huge task. A standout essay combines two things: authenticity and specificity. Rather than aiming for the most unusual experience possible, focus on writing about something truly personal to you, even if it's a familiar topic. Admissions officers are looking for essays that reveal who you are, not just what you’ve done.

Highlighting personal growth is a strong approach, and you don’t need a dramatic story to do this. For example, you might describe a time you changed your perspective about a friendship, or an ordinary family ritual that taught you something meaningful. Details are your friend. Instead of just saying, “I learned to be resilient,” show them what happened and how you changed. For instance: "Waking up at 5 AM to walk my neighbor’s dog before school taught me more than just responsibility—it introduced me to a quiet neighborhood world that most people missed."

Humor and a creative hook can definitely work, but only if they feel true to your voice. Ask yourself, would a friend recognize you in this essay? If you’re not usually the class clown, forced jokes can sound awkward. On the other hand, if you’re naturally witty, letting some humor shine through can help your essay feel genuine.

In my own experience, I found it useful to pick one small story and zoom in. Instead of telling my life story or listing activities, I wrote about a single afternoon volunteering at the animal shelter, focusing on a moment when I felt out of my comfort zone. That tiny story let me show vulnerability, curiosity, and growth. Looking back, I would have avoided clichés—like writing about just scoring a winning goal—unless I could connect it to a deeper change in me.

To show your personality, use specific details and reflections. Swap out broad statements for concrete moments, like describing the feeling of wet paint on your hands during a mural project, instead of just saying "art is my passion." Finally, read your essay aloud. If it sounds like you, you’re on the right track. If it’s stiff or generic, try rewriting a section in your natural speaking style.

Brainstorm lots of ideas before settling on one, and don’t be afraid to take risks, as long as you’re being sincere. Ask a few people you trust to read your draft and give feedback—they can often tell if your authentic self is coming through!