How do you actually start writing your college essay?

Staring at a blank page is something almost everyone faces at the start of the college essay process, so you’re not alone. The most important thing to remember is that your essay should sound like you—it shouldn’t be what you think admissions officers "want to hear" or some overly polished version of yourself.

When starting your essay, you don’t have to have the perfect opening line right away. In fact, many students end up writing their introduction last because it’s easier to get the main story down before crafting a strong lead. If starting with a quote or anecdote feels natural, go for it, but don’t force it. Sometimes opening with a simple scene, a moment of action, or even an honest thought can be just as compelling. For example, you might write: “I never imagined that volunteering at the local animal shelter would teach me more about patience than any classroom ever could.”

As for uniqueness, you don’t need a wild life story or a brand new idea. What matters most is your perspective and your voice—that’s what people mean by "finding your voice." Focus on moments or small stories that reveal how you think, what you care about, or how you solve problems. For instance, instead of talking broadly about your love for science, you could write about a specific moment when an experiment failed and how you figured out what went wrong. Admissions officers want to know that you can compete at their school, so writing about how you solved a difficult problem or overcame a barrier in a project can speak volumes about who you are and what you're capable of achieving.

To break writer’s block, try brainstorming exercises: jot down a list of moments when you felt proud, challenged, or changed. Free write for 10 minutes on each memory—don’t worry about grammar or structure. Later, you can pick out the stories that feel most personal and significant. Another idea is to talk out your stories with a trusted friend or family member; sometimes, saying things aloud helps clarify what matters to you.

Remember, the best essays are genuine and specific. Start with a small moment or story, let it grow, and revise later. The first draft is just a beginning—don’t worry about making it perfect!