How do I choose what topic to write about for my college essay?

I’m starting to brainstorm for my main college essay (the personal statement for the Common App), but honestly, I’m having trouble figuring out what topics would work. I’ve looked at a bunch of sample essays online, but they all seem super unique and interesting and I feel kind of stuck trying to match them.

I’m not sure if I should write about something really specific, like a hobby or talent, or if I should try to talk about a challenge I faced. There are parts of my life that matter to me, like helping out with my younger siblings and my part-time job at the library, but I don’t know if those are strong enough to write a whole essay about. Is it better to choose something super personal, or something that shows off my achievements?

Has anyone else felt like they didn’t have a “defining moment” to talk about? How did you decide what to write your essay about?
7 months ago
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Joana Lepuri
 • 7 months ago
Advisor
Figuring out what to write about for your college essay can definitely feel overwhelming, especially when it looks like everyone else has experienced something "extraordinary." The truth is, you don’t need a major achievement or dramatic event to write a compelling essay. Admissions officers are just as interested in genuine, reflective stories about regular life as they are in big accomplishments.

Start by thinking about what aspects of yourself you want an admissions officer to know: your values, interests, or personality traits that matter deeply to you. Sometimes, the most powerful essays come from ordinary experiences. For instance, if helping your younger siblings has shaped your sense of responsibility or taught you about leadership and patience, that could be a strong topic if you dive into specific moments and reflect on what they've meant to you.

It’s often better to write about something personal, even if it doesn’t sound flashy, because it allows you to be authentic and reflective. For example, one student wrote about making sandwiches at her after-school job and how small, routine interactions with customers shaped her beliefs about kindness and community. Another wrote about organizing the bookshelves at their part-time library job and how that process mirrored their way of seeking order and calm in their life. When I was writing my college essays, I wrote specifically about the perpetual construction going on in the street I took to get to school every day, while tying it to the way my life developed through high school.

Ask yourself:
- What are some moments when I felt challenged, proud, or inspired?
- Are there interests I have where I lose track of time?
- Have I ever changed my mind about something important?
- What were my favorite activities in school? What event or day from that activity do I think about the most?
- What's one thing that changed about you from the beginning of high school/junior year/senior year to now?
- What's something that riled me up this year?
- What was I the most excited about this year?

I generally advise my students to "brain dump" any possible topic idea they could have based on things they've experienced in the last couple of years and see what sticks. It’s helpful to free-write or jot down short stories about different experiences and see which ones help you naturally reflect on your growth. Often, the topic doesn’t matter as much as how you use it to explore your character.
Joana Lepuri
Chicago, IL
University of Chicago B.A. in Political Science, Public Policy, 2021 | Loyola University Chicago School of Law J.D., 2027
Experience
7 years