How do you choose the best college essay topic?

Choosing the best college essay topic can definitely feel daunting, especially with so much pressure to "stand out." The truth is, there’s no single right answer—the best topic is one that feels authentic and allows you to share meaningful insights about yourself. Admissions officers don’t expect everyone to have faced huge challenges or dramatic events; they’re much more interested in how you think, grow, and engage with the world.

It’s totally fine—even often more effective—to write about something ordinary as long as you can make it personal. Instead of focusing on a broad or generic story, narrow in on a specific moment, interaction, or realization that reveals something important about your character. For example, one student I worked with wrote about folding laundry with his grandmother every Sunday and used those quiet moments to reflect on family traditions and his sense of belonging. That essay stood out because it was detailed, personal, and thoughtful, not because the topic itself was shocking or unique.

To get started, think about:
- Times you changed your mind about something meaningful
- Moments when you stepped out of your comfort zone (even in small ways)
- Traditions, hobbies, or quirks that are important in your life
- People who have influenced you and how

Avoid generic takes on common topics (like simply stating you learned teamwork playing sports) unless you have a truly unique angle. If you feel like a story is too common, ask yourself: what does this experience say about what kind of person I am now?

One practical approach is to brainstorm a few possible stories or moments that feel important to you. Then, try outlining or even drafting a paragraph of each—see which one feels energizing to write about and offers room for introspection. Often the topic that might seem the most mundane at first can end up being the most powerful, as long as it’s specific and honest.

In summary: The best topic is one that helps you communicate who you are at your core, through a lens that only you can offer. Admissions officers want to hear your voice, not just about what you’ve done, but why those experiences matter to you. Focus on telling your story, even (or especially) if it’s about something "everyday." That’s what truly resonates.