What are some unique ways to start my college essay?

Getting started is tough, but you're already on the right track by thinking about what will capture your reader's attention. The best hooks are the ones that feel authentic to your story and style, not gimmicky or forced. Since you're writing about growing up as the oldest sibling, consider opening with a vivid, specific scene from your life rather than a generic quote or rhetorical question.

For example, instead of starting with “As the oldest in my family, I have always...” you could try something like:

"At 6:17 a.m., I’m negotiating with a six-year-old over the last blueberry muffin before anyone else is awake."

This draws the reader in with a sensory detail, a timestamp, and a little bit of humor—which all suggest there's a story to tell. Instantly, it sets your essay apart and immerses your reader in your world.

Another approach is to start with a statement that’s surprising or even contradictory:

"I never wanted to be in charge, but my siblings had other plans."

This kind of opening creates curiosity and prompts the reader to keep going. You don’t have to avoid questions entirely, but make sure any question you ask is personal and not too broad. Instead of, “What does it mean to be a leader?”, try something more like, “How do you convince a preschooler to do math homework with you on Saturday morning? I’ve had years to figure it out.”

The key is to anchor your opening to something only you could write—something rooted in your actual, lived experience. Ask yourself: What's a small moment that captures what it's like being the oldest? Maybe it's mediating a sibling squabble, or teaching someone to tie their shoes. Use concrete details and don’t be afraid to let your personality come through, whether that’s through humor, vulnerability, or even a little chaos.

A unique opening sets the tone for the whole piece. You want the reader to feel like they're stepping right into a day of your life, and the first line is the invitation. If you try a few options and get feedback from someone else, you’ll see what makes people want to hear more.